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Despondent. I am mourning he loss of my daughter’s 7th mi

Despondent. I am mourning he loss of my daughter’s 7th miscarriage today. Obviously, I’m devastated for her but must guard my own devastation so not to add to her own grief. It’s been a horrendous two year journey of hope followed by loss. She has endured so much pain and I’m powerless to do more than listen. For the last seven years I’ve been in the midst of one storm after another, an alcoholic brother (now dead), a husband with rapidly advancing Parkinson’s, providing care to a resistant and quickly fading elderly mother who can’t even attend to her basic needs, yet abjectly refuses help. My daughter’s struggle by far is the single most difficult aspect of my life and I’m afraid this one is pushing me to the brink of giving up. I can’t stand the pain of knowing there is nothing waiti;g for me on the other side of these storms. I’ve lost any semblance of hope. My husband will continue to deteriorate. My 87 year old mother will die. Then what’s left? I am surrounded by people with able bodied husbands who can walk far enough to go out to dinner. I surrounded by people who have the freedom to go to a movie without worrying about a mother. And not a day goes by that I’m not greeted with the wonderful news of a friend expecting a grandchild. My crystal ball prediction in undeniable and I don’t see any point anymore.

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Mar 13

I experienced my first and only miscarriage about 3 years ago. Being a guy it rocks us as well but I cannot fathom 7. Omg prayers and thoughts

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[75]
Mar 28

Hi! I am so sad for your little girl's misfortunes and your own. I trust you are improving. Tragically, these things are a piece of life. I figure you ought to encourage your girl to look at different choices. firstly you have to look into the matter and identify the reasons of MCs, as continuous miscarriages can lead to infertility. She could go for IVF treatment, or even better, surrogacy. I can understand the pain which she is facing but still, the timely cure is essential. It has truly been the best. Good fortunes!

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Mar 29

You and your family are still in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you are feeling hopeful and stronger and more at peace.

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